Friday, March 23, 2012

Do I Believe in The American Dream of 2012?

Do I Believe in The American Dream of 2012?
     The American dream! These are tough times for that Dream. As the safe routines of our lives have come undone, so has our optimism, not only our belief that the future is full of limitless possibility, but our faith that things will eventually return to normal, whatever “normal” was before the recession hit. There is even worry that the dream may be over, that we currently living Americans are the unfortunate ones who will bear witness to that deflating moment in history when the promise of this country begins to wither. This gives cause to stand back and assess the American Dream. What exactly is it? It seems to mean something different to each individual’s heart. The dream of today seems somewhat different than the dream for America when the Declaration of Independence was drafted. The observations I have made from a small child to where I am now have brought a continuously reoccurring question to my mind. Do I believe in this American Dream?
     What did the American dream start out to be? The idea of the American Dream is rooted in the United States Declaration of Independence which proclaims that "all men are created equal" and that they are "endowed by their Creator with certain inalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." (Jefferson)
     When Winthrop came over with the Puritans, the idea of the dream that he brought forth was different from that of the founding fathers. His idea was that they should be a model of Christian charity, to be a light to the world around them. They should look out for each other and in doing so they would become that city upon the hill.  
     The American Dream in 2012 is poles apart from when the Declaration of Independence was drafted in 1776. The sense of equal opportunity is still here. The American Dream still exists. But, the big difference is that the idea of how to accomplish the dream has changed. It went from people wanting to work hard and achieve goals, to people wanting to sit on their butts at home while things just fall into their laps. This can somewhat be due to the fact that America is a grown nation. When it started out people had to work to become something because there was nothing. In 2012 there is everything a person needs to survive and opportunity to thrive.
     The emphasis has turned from wanting to create and make things better. It almost appears now that people are only looking out for themselves and trying to find ways to get ahead, even if it means putting the other person down. Then there’s the people who don’t even want to rise to any occasion in their life, who idly sit by and live off welfare thus eating up funds that should go to other more deserving subjects. They may say, well at least they aren’t trying to beat other people down to get ahead. Really? What else would it be called if they are taking money from other people that they wouldn’t need if they had a job? These people could say that they are happy and this is their right. However, they are ignoring the part in the declaration where it says the pursuit of happiness. Sitting on the couch and taking money away from people that really need it, would hardly be qualified in the dictionary as pursuit! Pursuit is going after something that’s appealing, even if it means starting out at the bottom working in a fast food joint. If it is a person that truly pursues I doubt they’d be there long.  
     In the song “Badlands,” Bruce Springsteen writes about the American Dream turning more into a night mare and how the glorious American Dream isn’t what it was once cracked up to be. “You wake up in the night/With a fear so real/Spend your life waiting/For a moment that just don’t come/Well, don’t waste your time waiting” (lines 16-20).  
     The song “We Take Care of Our Own,” by Bruce Springsteen clearly blows Winthrop’s idea of his dream of charity right out of the water. “I been knocking on the door that holds the throne/I been looking for the map that leads me home/I been stumbling on good hearts turned to stone/The road of good intentions has gone dry as a bone” (lines 1-4).
     All the good intentions are gone? Who will bring good intentions back? Who will try to save a life? This made me rethink the dream, in fact not just me, but my entire family as they grow up think through the American Dream and decide how it will affect their lives. If my Mom and Dad had not rethought through the American dream I wouldn’t be here. They were happily married with their two children when they thought through the dream and decided to kick the odds and had six more kids. Trust me when I say, that is not the American dream!!! Anybody who wants eight fussy, screaming, argumentative children under one roof is insane! We lived on oatmeal, beans, and lintels. We had one of those once or twice a day for at least four years that I can remember. We didn’t have electricity for at least five of my growing up years, and no running water for about one of them.
     Well, I still hate oatmeal and lintels to this day but I can sort of tolerate beans. Even with these dislikes I developed, I loved my childhood and so many of the things I believe in today, I learned back then. We were poor and never had very much material stuff. Most of the toys I remember getting was given to me by my Aunt and Uncle who had achieved the American Dream. However, we were taught the more valuable truths of sharing and caring and loving other people. That was all we had to give to others and it gave the sweetest rewards.
     Those truths have brought me to the place I am now. I have thought through the American Dream and have decided to go against the normal standards of how it would be defined today. I am studying for a bachelor’s degree in nursing and science so I can go to foreign countries and minister healing to sick people that can’t afford medical attention. Is this going to lead me to great wealth and fame? It probably will not. Will I ever have a nice fancy house with my white picket fence? I doubt I will ever have that either. I never did have that and I have learned that’s not what makes this world a better place. The dream is not in things, it is in people!
     So, if someone asked me if I believe in the American Dream I would say which American Dream? If it’s the one of today where people stomp down others to get ahead, if it’s the one where people’s hearts have turned to stone, if it’s the idea that everything should be handed to me because I deserve it, then I most certainly do not believe in the American Dream. However, if it’s the one back in 1776 that we are created equal with life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, than yes I believe. If it’s the dream of that city upon the hill, if it’s that idea of charity one to another and that people are valued more than things, than yes I believe in the American Dream.     
        
Works Cited
Jefferson, Thomas. The Declaration of Independence.
Springsteen, Bruce. “Badlands.” BruceSpringsteen.net. Thrill Hill Production. n.d. Web.
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---. “We take Care of Our Own.” BruceSpringsteen.net Thrill Hill Production. n.d. Web.
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Friday, January 20, 2012

My Latest Travelings

     I'm back! I have done so many things I've never done before in the last month. Like sleigh riding, skiing, and skidooing. I still don't know if it's fun riding in a one horse open sleigh because there were two horses pulling the sleigh. (you know Jingle Bells) But, it was still very enjoyable! I had a blast skiing!!! I made it down a couple hills but the last one I got half way down and flipped the rest of the way.... The next day I was a little sore! I guess maybe I should tell you where I was, huh?! I was in Alberta, CA visiting my fiance for Christmas and New Years. I got a bruise on my leg from the skidoo flipping on us and some other minor things like that.
     I saw a lot of new faces. I thought I had seen them all last time, but it seems like everytime I go back there's more people that come out of the wood work! Don't ask me where they come from. It can be a bit overwhelming at times when there's five or six new people. They all remember my name and I'm like "what's your name again?" There was only one thing I noticed there that wasn't quite right with me. The people don't seem to be as bouncy and go getty like here. They don't belt out the singing either. Maybe they're just more reserved. I still prefer southern singin'. (no offense honey)
     Well, I had an amazing time, but sadly it all came to an end. Like usual I cried. But, I got upset enough at the young punk on the plane that took my seat I actually quit crying and my tears never returned. Maybe that was a blessing from the Lord because I usually cry all the way home!( Miriam the red nosed cry baby) The trip was uneventful until I landed in Nashville. My sister, a friend Matt, and my cousin Brandon came and picked me up! It was totally unexpected because I didn't even know they were visiting our place! Very nice!
     I'm trying to get back into the swing of things here. School has started again and so far it's not so bad. I only have 3 months to go before the semester is over! You know, just keeping a positive outlook. My sister and Bro-in-law just left this morning. They were here for a couple weeks and thanks to Jake a lot more got done to the addtion on our house for Granny! I might get to see my friend Jayme tomorrow. And, if I get off here I might get some of my research on prenatal care started. I hope everyone is doing well. The Lord is still gracious, merciful and kind! The kindness of the Lord makes me happy just thinking about it. He does so many kind things for me. 

Psalm 117

 1O praise the Lord, all ye nations: praise him, all ye people.
 2For his merciful kindness is great toward us: and the truth of the Lord endureth for ever. Praise ye the LORD.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Gain Your Life by Spending it

     I have been running for weeks now in endless circles it seems. There's alway something to replace the last job or assignment that I've finished so that I'm never done. There's projects I forget about and a bonus paper that gets submitted online 5 minutes before midnight. If I don't keep up with my calendar I double book myself. This is not cool at all!
     This last weekend I was able to slow down and have a wonderful weekend with my family. I had a moment to stop running and look around for once. I enjoyed playing games and sitting around chatting. I packed my lil nephew places with me. I went shopping with an awesome sister!All these things I did were so rejuvenating.
      I took a step back from myself to see what I looked like. (It's not a bad thing to do every once in awhile.) I didn't really like what I saw. I was looking at a girl that was absolutely drained! I was becoming ragged from life. Having a long weekend gave me the opportunity to regroup physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
     As I came back to school this week, feeling much better by the way, I was reminded of the scripture in Lamentations 3:22,23  It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because His compassions fail not.They are new every morning: great is Thy faithfulness.
     It is so easy to get caught up in the rush of humanity. It is so easy to be so focused on doing things for others and pleasing people in our lives that we forget about ourselves and become people who blindly spend our lives away. I'm not saying spending life is a bad thing. It can be a very good thing. Just be careful and make sure your spending it on something worth spending life on. Take time to spend life in a way that builds the soul back up rather than weaken and make it tired. As you go about your day make a conscious effort to "Gain your life by spending it". There is no reason why we shouldn't be able to do this. The Lord is full of compassions, His mercies are new every morning, and He is faithful.
    
     Mark 8:35   For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it.
      

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

I Must Rush On

     I started a new job today. I had a NSLS meeting this afternoon. I went to church tonight so I could lead my prayer group. I'm trying to get two papers done.(They're due on Monday!) I'm trying to catch up on Math homework. I'm trying to figure out when and where I can get married... With all this going on I think of something my Aunt says. I must rush on, I must rush on! You say you must rush on? Yes, I must!

Monday, November 14, 2011

The Reality of Faith

     So many things happen in our lives. So many things are unknown. So many things we can't understand. But, there is someone who understands completely. Someone who feels everything we feel. Someone who can see ahead in our future, and knows exactly what we need. His name is Jesus! I love that name. I say it often, and I never get tired of hearing it.
     His ways are higher than our ways. His thoughts are so much higher than our thoughts, with these earthly eyes we can't always see what He has prepared for us. Trials, frustrations, and pain so cloud our view at times, making it impossible to see. When these situations come, it's so hard to believe that Jesus is in heaven and that God still reigns supreme on the throne. It's so hard to believe something that can cause so much pain, and so many hearts to break, could ever be in the perfect will of the Lord.  This is why we (meaning believers) have faith. This is where it needs to come into play.
     Do you think it was pure accident in Ephesians 6:16 when Paul told the Saints in Ephesus, "Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench ALL the fiery darts of the wicked"? I sincerely hope you don't think it was accident. The devil would love to get us to stop believing and give up faith. If he makes us stop believing, then he has us right where he wants us! If we don't have faith, we can't overcome the world. 1John 5:4 says,"For whatsoever is born of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith."
     Faith is an inward thing that has to be outwardly applied. Faith keeps us going even when trials seem endless and pain grips us with such sorrow our soul wills to die. I realize faith is not the gospel in it's entirety, but a portion of the entire gospel. I know faith does not take away the trials in life, and doesn't take all our hurts away. But, sometimes I just need to remember faith is the victory. Jesus is the author and finisher of my faith. In this I find a strange sense of comfort and I lay my trust in the Lord once again because He is on the throne and He sees and Knows ever aspect of my life from beginning to end.
             Truly my soul waiteth upon God: from Him cometh my salvation. Psalms 62:1

Friday, November 11, 2011

In The Night

You wake up breathing hard
From a scary dream you're scared
In the night
You sit up and look around
But no one is to be found
In the night
You may turn on the light
To rid the darkness giving sight
In the night
Now that you can finally see
your worries take their flight and flee
In the night